new car, oil temp problem ??

[evil370z]

i recently bought a new 2014 touring sport 6mt.
got mobil 1 synenthic oil change from nissan at 1k miles like recommended by my nissan dealer.
car has now 1500 miles

when driving it stays around 180-190 which is normal but as soon as the car is standing still, not moving for like 5-10 min, oil temp increases and gets close to 220 ??. 2 of my friends got the same year / make / model as me and they never hit 200 or 220 even with aggressive driving ?? (NY weather, outside temp 20-30 degrees)

I'm going to bring it to nissan, this shouldn't be normal, i know we have oil temp problems with our cars but I'm not even driving aggressively ??

I'm going to fight with nissan cause my car is stock and under warranty.