Lo and behold, what do we have here? As I thought, a PAC controller :) was quite surprised, but it was pleasant. Made things so much easier.
No pics of the already patched BT module. Its funny, they fixed up the 32 pin connector for me, but forgot to put the other 12 pin plug back in. After a few false starts with the PAC controller, I had all my steering buttons manually programmed, along with my BT buttons, which I custom installed for VR commands. I did this in about a half hour.