Mt Tam I am's Driving Journal

onzedge · 03-20-2015, 05:31 AM

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Originally Posted by Mt Tam I am

I have barley been on the 370Z.com as life has been rough lately at home. My gal of 21 years started to go out of her way to drive me crazy. I know all men say this sort of stuff but it was pronounce. Things not getting done, bills unpaid, constantly saying one thing doing another and when called out, simply say "I am doing the best I can". There are countless examples of unacceptable behavior.

I contemplated ending our relationship. I am so glad I didn't.

She began to exhibit signs of senility but maybe it was a TIA type stroke? She went to the doctor and was fine. Really? I took her to her doctor Monday, where I had the doctor ask her a few questions not on the usual list. I was told to take her to the ER where the diagnosis was a baseball sized mass (tumor). She's been in the hospital ever since, and I'm there till they kick me out. At 7:30 am Friday (today) she will have it removed during an 8+ hour operation. She has yet to shed a tear and I am just barely holding together.

I am telling everyone it went well in advance. Pray I'm right.

Carter,

My thoughts and prayers are with you. Please -- if there is anything I can do for you do not hesitate to ask.

Hang in there, brother.

-- Donald

blackcherry20 · 03-20-2015, 06:03 AM

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Originally Posted by Mt Tam I am

I have barley been on the 370Z.com as life has been rough lately at home. My gal of 21 years started to go out of her way to drive me crazy. I know all men say this sort of stuff but it was pronounce. Things not getting done, bills unpaid, constantly saying one thing doing another and when called out, simply say "I am doing the best I can". There are countless examples of unacceptable behavior.

I contemplated ending our relationship. I am so glad I didn't.

She began to exhibit signs of senility but maybe it was a TIA type stroke? She went to the doctor and was fine. Really? I took her to her doctor Monday, where I had the doctor ask her a few questions not on the usual list. I was told to take her to the ER where the diagnosis was a baseball sized mass (tumor). She's been in the hospital ever since, and I'm there till they kick me out. At 7:30 am Friday (today) she will have it removed during an 8+ hour operation. She has yet to shed a tear and I am just barely holding together.

I am telling everyone it went well in advance. Pray I'm right.

saying a little prayer for you Tam. And your gal. [{z-hugs}]. Hang in there buddy. We are there w you in our thoughts.

Mt Tam I am · 03-20-2015, 10:21 AM

Thanks to all. Her name is Jay and I too just said a prayer for her. I bucked up half way through it.

I had the phone next to me all night and somehow missed her call. Jay called just as they hauled her off. I am sad I could have had another hour on the phone had I gotten the message.

I almost fell apart over the phone but got it together for one last I love you. She is stronger than I.

JARblue · 03-20-2015, 10:55 AM

Thoughts and prayers for Jay and Carter

Hotrodz · 03-20-2015, 11:03 AM

Hang in there man, praying for you both!

Rusty · 03-20-2015, 11:40 AM

You and your girl are in my prayers. I went thought the same thing with my first wife. She battled cancer for 3.5 yrs before it beat her.

I'm hoping your girl has a better outcome.

blackcherry20 · 03-20-2015, 06:57 PM

Any news yet?!
Thinking of you guys (Jay and Carter)!

Memphis370Z · 03-20-2015, 08:11 PM

Just sent up a prayer for the both of y'all, as well as the surgeon(s) and hospital staff. Keep your chin up.

Mt Tam I am · 03-20-2015, 10:30 PM

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Originally Posted by blackcherry20

Any news yet?!
Thinking of you guys (Jay and Carter)!

12 hours of surgery and that's all I know so far. I am wrung out emotionally.

Thanks to all once again,

Carter

Mt Tam I am · 03-21-2015, 02:31 AM

I just got home from the hospital. She is heavily sedated but seemed to know me. She has a breathing tube currently so I did all the talking. As she is in ICU, I had more time waiting than seeing, but I was so relieved to be with her.

She is swollen and may have a vision issue in her left eye but that may be just fine in the end. She looks a lot better than I could have hoped from the doctors prep talk. The breathing tube will likely be removed in the morning and I'd like to be there early as they will let me.

Thanks for all the support.

onzedge · 03-21-2015, 04:54 AM

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Originally Posted by Mt Tam I am

I just got home from the hospital. She is heavily sedated but seemed to know me. She has a breathing tube currently so I did all the talking. As she is in ICU, I had more time waiting than seeing, but I was so relieved to be with her.

She is swollen and may have a vision issue in her left eye but that may be just fine in the end. She looks a lot better than I could have hoped from the doctors prep talk. The breathing tube will likely be removed in the morning and I'd like to be there early as they will let me.

Thanks for all the support.

Carter -- call me today when you are up for it.

blackcherry20 · 03-21-2015, 06:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Mt Tam I am

I just got home from the hospital. She is heavily sedated but seemed to know me. She has a breathing tube currently so I did all the talking. As she is in ICU, I had more time waiting than seeing, but I was so relieved to be with her.

She is swollen and may have a vision issue in her left eye but that may be just fine in the end. She looks a lot better than I could have hoped from the doctors prep talk. The breathing tube will likely be removed in the morning and I'd like to be there early as they will let me.

Thanks for all the support.

Thanks for taking time to keep us updated Carter...additional prayers headed your way.

onzedge · 03-21-2015, 06:41 AM

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Originally Posted by blackcherry20

Thanks for taking time to keep us updated Carter...additional prayers headed your way.

JARblue · 03-21-2015, 07:08 AM

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Originally Posted by Mt Tam I am

I just got home from the hospital. She is heavily sedated but seemed to know me. She has a breathing tube currently so I did all the talking. As she is in ICU, I had more time waiting than seeing, but I was so relieved to be with her.

She is swollen and may have a vision issue in her left eye but that may be just fine in the end. She looks a lot better than I could have hoped from the doctors prep talk. The breathing tube will likely be removed in the morning and I'd like to be there early as they will let me.

Thanks for all the support.

This is an encouraging update

Continuing thoughts and prayers for her recovery stage and for your strength.

onzedge · 03-21-2015, 07:12 AM

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Originally Posted by JARblue

This is an encouraging update

Continuing thoughts and prayers for her recovery stage and for your strength.

03-20-2015, 10:21 AM	#528 (permalink)
Mt Tam I am A True Z Fanatic Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: California Posts: 10,709 Drives: 370Z T/S/N 6MT & XKE Rep Power: 3843	Thanks to all. Her name is Jay and I too just said a prayer for her. I bucked up half way through it. I had the phone next to me all night and somehow missed her call. Jay called just as they hauled her off. I am sad I could have had another hour on the phone had I gotten the message. I almost fell apart over the phone but got it together for one last I love you. She is stronger than I. onzedge, JARblue and blackcherry20 like this. __________________ "Does the carpet match the drapes? NO!!! I don't date bald women." Nissan Motorsports 34R Oil Cooler. Stillen CBE. Hotchkis Sport Sway Bars. KW Variant 3 Coilover System. Stillen Gen3 CAI. Michelin Pilot Super Sport. Stillen Brake Ducts. Carbotech™ XP10/XP8 Pads. Z1 Front Rotors. Z1 Stainless Brake Lines. Two degrees of camber

03-20-2015, 10:55 AM	#529 (permalink)
JARblue A True Z Fanatic Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Austin, TX Age: 43 Posts: 36,450 Drives: 11 Z34, 98 E36 M3 Rep Power: 2684440	Thoughts and prayers for Jay and Carter __________________ 2011 370Z 6MT Sport Gun Metallic \| ARC \| CJM \| Ecutek \| FI \| Fujimura \| R2C \| SPL \| Stillen \| TWM \| Z1 \| ZSpeed \|

03-20-2015, 11:03 AM	#530 (permalink)
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03-20-2015, 11:40 AM	#531 (permalink)
Rusty Ronin Samurai - Assassin Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Fayettenam,Pennsyltucky Age: 68 Posts: 35,158 Drives: 2011 Nismo GM 6M Rep Power: 2684437	You and your girl are in my prayers. I went thought the same thing with my first wife. She battled cancer for 3.5 yrs before it beat her. I'm hoping your girl has a better outcome. __________________ 浪人 - 殺し屋 "The Difficult Anytime, The Impossible By Appointment Only" http://www.the370z.com/members-370z-...o-journal.html

03-20-2015, 06:57 PM	#532 (permalink)
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03-20-2015, 08:11 PM	#533 (permalink)
Memphis370Z A True Z Fanatic Join Date: Sep 2014 Location: Memphis Area Posts: 3,117 Drives: '09 MB Rep Power: 124434	Just sent up a prayer for the both of y'all, as well as the surgeon(s) and hospital staff. Keep your chin up. blackcherry20 likes this.

03-21-2015, 02:31 AM	#535 (permalink)
Mt Tam I am A True Z Fanatic Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: California Posts: 10,709 Drives: 370Z T/S/N 6MT & XKE Rep Power: 3843	I just got home from the hospital. She is heavily sedated but seemed to know me. She has a breathing tube currently so I did all the talking. As she is in ICU, I had more time waiting than seeing, but I was so relieved to be with her. She is swollen and may have a vision issue in her left eye but that may be just fine in the end. She looks a lot better than I could have hoped from the doctors prep talk. The breathing tube will likely be removed in the morning and I'd like to be there early as they will let me. Thanks for all the support. JARblue, blackcherry20 and Memphis370Z like this. __________________ "Does the carpet match the drapes? NO!!! I don't date bald women." Nissan Motorsports 34R Oil Cooler. Stillen CBE. Hotchkis Sport Sway Bars. KW Variant 3 Coilover System. Stillen Gen3 CAI. Michelin Pilot Super Sport. Stillen Brake Ducts. Carbotech™ XP10/XP8 Pads. Z1 Front Rotors. Z1 Stainless Brake Lines. Two degrees of camber

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