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No matter what you look like, there will be people who are not attracted to you because of it. No matter what your personality, there will be people who are not attracted to you because of it. No matter what your _____, there will be people who are not attracted to you because of it. There is no one-size-fits-all.
The flip side of that coin is that, no matter who/what you are, there are people that are attracted to that. Pick any characteristic you can think of a do a web search. All sorts of people prefer plus-size partners. All sorts of people prefer small breasts. All sorts of people prefer a dominant partner. And the list go on forever. Helpful was in quotes because, no matter how helpful you think you are being, many people aren't going to like it. Especially when it is unsolicited. |
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The very fact a message was sent to correct someone's profile because you didn't like it was a bitchy move, regardless of how helpful you mistakenly thought you were being. It wasn't a good deed no matter how much time you spend nailing yourself to that cross. Ant then the arrogance required to come in here to give us some public service announcement about not being that guy is pretty unbelievable. |
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I think that's the fundamental problem. People don't look past the words at the intentions of a person before passing judgement and deciding on a reaction. |
What is wrong with society?
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Guess you see things differently and fall in line with the guy. I was merely trying to bring attention to something which may have been missed in the heat of the moment, as obviously it was written whilst emotional and annoyed. Considering that the point of a dating website is to attract others into a date, it would make most sense to write in a sensible manner, but that's just what I think. Unless he's trying to attract chicks who like that douchey attitude, then by all means more power to him and he's right on track. And I didn't tell him to correct it, I merely offered a suggestion that he might want to take into consideration. Agree to disagree, I suppose. |
There are more people here than me that think there was nothing out of line with his profile, and it's just your misinterpretation of it that started things.
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i have no comment on this. ive already established im keeping my distance from you in the tampa thread... lol
actually, i do have a comment. who gives a ****. you found out right off the bat there was no compatibility... move on. done. easy as that :-) |
I don't understand why it's so difficult to understand that my intentions were that of being helpful, or "helpful". I was being genuine and sincere. Why am I being made out to be a bitch for trying to be nice? This is a first for me. Clearly I should've not bothered, but that doesn't change the fact that I was doing it out of kindness and not wanting to see someone get the shaft cause of something that was written while in a bad mood. My bad for caring. Geez...
This is why so many people are jaded and bitter. That's what I've been trying to get across. You do something nice for someone and get a nasty response. That's what's wrong with society and as previously state above- no good deed goes unpunished. |
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Lol oh no. Poor me. Whatever will I do without you in my life. *dramatic sigh* |
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Quit expecting people to live up to your expectations. All you are doing is setting yourself up for disappointment. |
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obviously someone here does not get the point and wants too much attention, did you really have to take screenshot of his profile which includes his description and pictures and go about how angry he is?
did you really have to make a thread about this and just tell us how bad this guy was? was this your intention of being "nice"? lets think about this first. |
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