Over 30 and still single, post here.

kenchan · 01-13-2014, 10:00 PM

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Originally Posted by exsanity

How does one posture themselves invitingly?

not sure, that usually gets us into trouble

Haboob · 01-13-2014, 10:01 PM

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Originally Posted by exsanity

How does one posture themselves invitingly?

When you're sitting at the bar, not sitting facing the bar, etc. kind of open yourself up to those around you - like facing people rather than the bartender/TVs. Be relaxed.

Things like that.

Opposite of what I do.

Haboob · 01-13-2014, 10:02 PM

Another problem I have is not knowing what to do with my hands.

Since I don't drink, I don't always have a drink in my hand... wtf do I do with them? I guess I could hold onto my soda or water, but even then that gets boring. My hands can't sit still for long.

XiP · 01-13-2014, 10:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Haboob

Another problem I have is not knowing what to do with my hands.

Since I don't drink, I don't always have a drink in my hand... wtf do I do with them? I guess I could hold onto my soda or water, but even then that gets boring. My hands can't sit still for long.

Haboob · 01-13-2014, 10:08 PM

I don't get it?

I've never seen that movie, so I don't know the reference, Xip.

XiP · 01-13-2014, 10:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Haboob

I don't get it?

I've never seen that movie, so I don't know the reference, Xip.

go watch Scarface, ASAP!

exsanity · 01-13-2014, 10:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Haboob

Another problem I have is not knowing what to do with my hands.

Since I don't drink, I don't always have a drink in my hand... wtf do I do with them? I guess I could hold onto my soda or water, but even then that gets boring. My hands can't sit still for long.

Haboob · 01-13-2014, 10:53 PM

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Originally Posted by XiP

go watch Scarface, ASAP!

Ehhh. Not so much into those types of movies. I get bored with them.

exsanity · 01-13-2014, 11:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Haboob

Ehhh. Not so much into those types of movies. I get bored with them.

It's kinda old anyway.

122554 · 01-13-2014, 11:43 PM

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Originally Posted by saber

don't like it? then don't read it. plenty of other threads to read.

btw, what oil should i be using?

It's an open forum. If you don't like the replies, don't start the post!

Oil? Anal lube works great!

Driftomodachi · 01-13-2014, 11:59 PM

Go watch Swingers. You're like this big bear man, and you have these big claws and the bunny's just sitting there, and you have these big claws but you don't know what to do with them. you gotta kill the bunny!

saber · 01-14-2014, 01:38 AM

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Originally Posted by 122554

It's an open forum. If you don't like the replies, don't start the post!

Oil? Anal lube works great!

hey now, i'm one of the most active in these threads

i...kinda f*cked up a little last week, so we'll see how things go.

exsanity · 01-14-2014, 01:42 AM

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Originally Posted by saber

hey now, i'm one of the most active in these threads

i...kinda f*cked up a little last week, so we'll see how things go.

What did you do this time?

0101 · 01-14-2014, 08:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Misnomer

What's been hard for me is finding men who don't want kids but still like them. I've never wanted to be a parent, but I love kids -- babies, toddlers, whatever, just as long as they aren't mine. I adore my 12-year-old "nephew" (who has already asked if he can drive my Z when he turns 16!), and I can't imagine being serious about someone who wouldn't want to hang out with him. I generally don't click with people who don't like children or animals (I have a dog).

(Single dads would seem to be the answer right? Except that a lot of them don't want to date childless women, because they're convinced we'd never really understand that their kid comes first.)

Yeah I agree. It does seem like a mental health test if someone doesn't like children and animals. I think they're cute, I love my niece and nephew and think my neighbors kids are funny, but I just don't want any. A dog or cat is cool. I think a lot of guys don't want kids, but get talked into it.

I'm in Arlington a lot for work, we shoud go out sometime

Haboob · 01-14-2014, 08:46 AM

Kids can be cool.

Not sure if I want any yet, and I'm super nervous about being around other peoples kids unless I know the person well, and even then I'm a bit stand-offish.

Animals? I don't want any. I don't mind dogs, cats are boring, but I don't hate them. I'm not a huge fanatic of either, so some things in the news don't really bother me like it does others and it forces me to keep my mouth shut for fear of offending people (but, it bugs the **** out of me when they go on their fanatical rants, so I guess I shouldn't really be biting my tongue if they're not going to).

I won't ever own a pet though, because they all shed and I refuse to deal with pet hair on my clothes and causing allergies, etc.

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01-13-2014, 10:02 PM	#273 (permalink)
Haboob A True Z Fanatic Join Date: Aug 2012 Location: Surface of the sun. Posts: 13,159 Drives: '18 GTI Autobahn DSG Rep Power: 1387	Another problem I have is not knowing what to do with my hands. Since I don't drink, I don't always have a drink in my hand... wtf do I do with them? I guess I could hold onto my soda or water, but even then that gets boring. My hands can't sit still for long.

01-13-2014, 10:08 PM	#275 (permalink)
Haboob A True Z Fanatic Join Date: Aug 2012 Location: Surface of the sun. Posts: 13,159 Drives: '18 GTI Autobahn DSG Rep Power: 1387	I don't get it? I've never seen that movie, so I don't know the reference, Xip.

01-13-2014, 11:59 PM	#281 (permalink)
Driftomodachi Enthusiast Member Join Date: Mar 2013 Location: Cerritos, CA Posts: 482 Drives: 2010 40th Rep Power: 13	Go watch Swingers. You're like this big bear man, and you have these big claws and the bunny's just sitting there, and you have these big claws but you don't know what to do with them. you gotta kill the bunny!

01-14-2014, 08:46 AM	#285 (permalink)
Haboob A True Z Fanatic Join Date: Aug 2012 Location: Surface of the sun. Posts: 13,159 Drives: '18 GTI Autobahn DSG Rep Power: 1387	Kids can be cool. Not sure if I want any yet, and I'm super nervous about being around other peoples kids unless I know the person well, and even then I'm a bit stand-offish. Animals? I don't want any. I don't mind dogs, cats are boring, but I don't hate them. I'm not a huge fanatic of either, so some things in the news don't really bother me like it does others and it forces me to keep my mouth shut for fear of offending people (but, it bugs the **** out of me when they go on their fanatical rants, so I guess I shouldn't really be biting my tongue if they're not going to). I won't ever own a pet though, because they all shed and I refuse to deal with pet hair on my clothes and causing allergies, etc.