Over 30 and still single, post here.

coolvans1988

Hit the gym and try to become friends with a cute girl thats a beginner.
Not too chubby, thin, or one of those eye candy girls that we will occasionally glance at... But aim for a cute average looking girl. Maybe it's a start.

kenchan

not sure, but if you're one of them good looking athletic types hitting on girls at the gym, i dont think they'd be posting here..?

Haboob

True. I've been on a couple of dates and was kind of nervous, but afterwards I was in the mindset of, "That was fun. I'd like to do this again right away." But wasn't ever anywhere I could act on that, since it wore off after a days work. Lol

It really depends on their personality. This girl I'm just friends with now (friend zoned hard, because she didn't want a relationship)... Her and I just clicked I guess. I couldn't get enough of her personality. It took a bit to get over the door being slammed in my face, but I'm over it now.

It's funny though, the few opportunities I've had have just fallen in my lap. I never went out really looking for them.


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DIGItonium

It's okay, I'm in the same boat. Look on the bright side. There are people who are in a much worse situation, so embrace what you have and your qualities. You can't really change who you really are other than to evolve as you grow older. So what if I'm a nice guy? My quality as a "nice guy" is what makes me approachable and sociable with anyone. I can't change that, but at least I can try to be smarter about it. Just be yourself and have some fun.

Think about your interests and figure out some conversation starters. Don't think too hard or your mind will go blank.

As I've been told, there's someone for everyone. I've come to accept it's not my time yet, so I'll work on myself and explore whenever I can. I just need to start making the moves sooner, but half the time I hesitate or the timing isn't right.

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blackcherry20

Lol! It does take effort. I was reading Stephen King (my absolute fav author and fav thing to do) eating frozen pizza...took a lot of effort to leave my cozy clean home to venture into the unknown but i did, here i am almost 20 years later...get out that comfort zone dood. Push yourself. More effort equals more opportunities-somebody else said that too! Lol gotta try.

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Chuck33079

That's absolutely right. It takes effort and practice. That's why it's called chasing *****, not tripping over *****.

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blackcherry20

The chase is part of the excitement of dating...

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DIGItonium

Here's the forecast for my birthday:


I'm also taking tomorrow off... feeling a bit sick and I can't risk getting anyone else sick at work. Good way to start my year lol.

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Haboob

Lol

I never really celebrate my birthday either, or other holidays. I think I'm going to try and change that from this point forward, maybe go out with friends and have them invite people they know.


Would be a better way for me to meet people, if my friends actually have any single friends.

DIGItonium

Good idea. I was trying to do that just now. I don't want it to end up straight up all dudes at my house. I don't want to end up with another dude knocked out on my bed while I sleep drunk on my couch, and then have to drive his arse home early in the morning while hungover. No no... not going to repeat that.

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TXSpeedDemon

DIGI oi!

If you are looking for a nice Vietnamese girl you need to move to Dallas. My wife is Vietnamese and has lots of very cute single friends, and I don't have many single guy friends who like Asian girls.

If you ever end up down here look me up, I'd be happy to show you around town and make some introductions.

nmjaxx9

This thread is very sad.

Jump on e-harmony or something OP, do somethin with your life.

Haboob

Sorry it's so sad.


If eHarmony wasn't so expensive, I'd try that.


I tried a month of Match.com and it was pointless. 90% of the girls aren't paid accounts and can't communicate.

DIGItonium

Nah, I don't need dating sites. Hope not. It beats going back to Vietnam to find a wife I tell ya.

OMG, I'd love to drive to Dallas for the weekend. I'm already taking this Friday! Don't know if I can make it back sober though lol.

This is me in Dallas last year. I drank a lot at my friend's wedding, whom he met his wife on eHarmony. Then we hit up an awesome club (too wasted to remember the name), but there was this cute Viet girl DJ who played some awesome tracks I couldn't help but dance. My friends try to blackmail me with the video of myself doing the seizure dance while messed up on what appears to be a mix of Goose and some sort of Rx that someone laced in my shot. It was bad and my friends didn't try hard enough to stop me from taking it. I told my friends that I would pretend to be messed up so people won't give me anymore shots. Little did I know it was already too late.

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