Over 30 and still single, post here.

Originally Posted by blackcherry20

Start with something small that strikes your fancy and decorate around that. could be as simple as a throw pillow, or a framed photo or painting...anything...just add stuff as you come across it. get a frined to help you-somebody who has a cool decor that you like. just gotta ask...

Originally Posted by kenchan

do you guys do much online dating? does that work at all or?

i ask because when i was young, there was barely any internet.
world wide web was a mistery when it was introduced. 14.4 dial up anyone?

Originally Posted by Chuck33079

With all your new free time, decorating will be easy. Paint is cheap. Women want to see domestic potential in you.



This is where the gay friend comes in. Every straight man needs a gay friend. Stereotyping heavily, but they're great with decorations and clothes, and they are un-freaking-believable wingmen. Don't be afraid to accompany them to gay bars, either. There are straight women there accompanying their gay friends.



I tried it back in the early 2000s. I got laid a lot, but I didn't meet anyone I wanted to know for any reason but sex. It seems to have changed, though. Two of my best friends are with women they met online, and they're cool chicks.