Over 30 and still single, post here.

DIGItonium

A few things made it fail, which was nothing compared to what she went through with other guys. I don't want to air too much on the Internet, but here's something Z related. Before getting a house I wanted to get the turbos out of the way, and we agreed. I shipped the car to Baker Tuning, which was about 20 minutes from her parent's house. A few months later we picked it up. I lost approval from her mother at this point because of the sports car and money spent on it. She wouldn't approve of a guy who spends money on non-essential things.

She's pretty much a different person now. Her relatives don't even talk to her, and she lost some friends as well. I'm told to let her go because she's selfish and uses people (even me).

Why or how do we still talk? Beats me. I finally let go in May by throwing away stuff. A few weeks later she contacted me out of the blue. Since then we've hung out a few times, but that was it. I'm finally trying to resist contacting her again since it's a waste of my time. There's something about her I miss, which is how we can talk about anything endlessly, and her company feels good (minus all the annoying quirky stuff about her, but I can ignore it well). She's attractive enough guys just want to get in her pants, and she knows it.

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