Another women question

nismochiq · 03-20-2012, 04:46 PM

Basically what I was implying was that because of how the media influences how we live most of everyone believe the same thing, and alot of people don't know what is true and why is not just don't judge, yes alot of woman do what you are saying but then again stop finding your Gf at the club or your work. Just let it happen and you will find happiness

ClemsonWill · 03-21-2012, 11:35 AM

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Originally Posted by nismochiq

stop finding your Gf at the club or your work. Just let it happen and you will find happiness

shadoquad · 03-21-2012, 07:19 PM

I don't see how the media enters into it. We're discussing promiscuity. People don't sleep around because Brian Williams or Matt Lauer tell them to. They do it because they want to get off with attractive people.

Leaving gender out of it, there's nothing wrong with that until it blurs the lines with committed relationships. Sleeping around is ok, but when there's a ring on the finger and families involved, things get complicated. If someone is willing to throw that away for you, they're probably willing to throw that away with you for someone else, but it is situational of course.

It's about personal accountability, not the media's expectations.

sexZness · 03-21-2012, 07:22 PM

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Originally Posted by shadoquad

I don't see how the media enters into it. We're discussing promiscuity. People don't sleep around because Brian Williams or Matt Lauer tell them to. They do it because they want to get off with attractive people.

Leaving gender out of it, there's nothing wrong with that until it blurs the lines with committed relationships. Sleeping around is ok, but when there's a ring on the finger and families involved, things get complicated. If someone is willing to throw that away for you, they're probably willing to throw that away with you for someone else, but it is situational of course.

I've been there so I know. As easy as it was for him to move onto me, it was just as easy for him to move onto the next one and completely ignore me.

nismochiq · 03-21-2012, 07:48 PM

No I understand exactly why you are saying all I am talking about is how the media effects our decisions on what is ok and what is not ok. Believe it or not if they didn't have any movies tv shows showing people who were promiscuous and cheating it would be less the case. Alot of those techniques come from the media. Like for instance hiding that you are cheating on someone. You would have never learned if it wasn't for your friends that watched this show that saw this technique worked so you tried it. Mainly in your teenage years this happened you just don't realize how much the media has effected our decisions in life it's like religion. You go to church and pay money for dues so you don't go to hell, but in the matter is that you are just promoting its ok to give the church money for something you will never know will happen or not unless you are dead.

It's an observation now back into topic, Alot of people cheat, alot of people want to get back at the other for cheating so they cheat, it's a continuous cycle and mostly just find a girl that is at your maturity level and everything should be fine treat her good and if she does something try not to carry that into your next relationship. Same thing goes with a girl.

6MT · 03-21-2012, 08:26 PM

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Originally Posted by bigaudiofanat

I am curious what everyone thinks about this.

Say you find a girl that is currently in a relationship with someone else. You steal her from that guy.

Does this make that girl someone that will easily move on to another guy? Meaning easily convinced to move to another guy.

You shouldn't be stealing her from the other guy in the first place.

shadoquad · 03-21-2012, 08:28 PM

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Originally Posted by nismochiq

No I understand exactly why you are saying all I am talking about is how the media effects our decisions on what is ok and what is not ok. Believe it or not if they didn't have any movies tv shows showing people who were promiscuous and cheating it would be less the case. Alot of those techniques come from the media. Like for instance hiding that you are cheating on someone. You would have never learned if it wasn't for your friends that watched this show that saw this technique worked so you tried it. Mainly in your teenage years this happened you just don't realize how much the media has effected our decisions in life it's like religion. You go to church and pay money for dues so you don't go to hell, but in the matter is that you are just promoting its ok to give the church money for something you will never know will happen or not unless you are dead.

It's an observation now back into topic, Alot of people cheat, alot of people want to get back at the other for cheating so they cheat, it's a continuous cycle and mostly just find a girl that is at your maturity level and everything should be fine treat her good and if she does something try not to carry that into your next relationship. Same thing goes with a girl.

Ok, I finally get what you're saying. I'm sorry, I had misunderstood

Isamu · 03-21-2012, 08:33 PM

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Originally Posted by nismochiq

Basically what I was implying was that because of how the media influences how we live most of everyone believe the same thing, and alot of people don't know what is true and why is not just don't judge, yes alot of woman do what you are saying but then again stop finding your Gf at the club or your work. Just let it happen and you will find happiness

BAM! so right you are!

look at this right here! a sexy lady and she drives a NISMO! :winning:

sexZness · 03-21-2012, 08:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Isamu

BAM! so right you are!

look at this right here! a sexy lady and she drives a NISMO! :winning:

omfg

quit being a whore

ernie · 03-21-2012, 08:47 PM

Relatioships in todays world are on a one day at a time basis for either sex. Live each day like it's your last. Very few people want to sleep with the same person, put up with all the trials and tribulations of a meaningfull relationship "til death do us part" . Even if you leave your no longer attractive, (to you) partner for the sexy neighbor, she to will lose the magic, or you will, sooner or later. I have seen friends who treated their signifacent other like they where royality and the relationship took a nose dive, the thrill of the chase was gone. I have other friends who treat their partners like they where expendable and only their to fullfill their needs and the door was always open and don't let it hit you in the (butt) on the way out. Those are the people with the longest and for what ever reason, the happiest. Go Figure!

Isamu · 03-21-2012, 09:13 PM

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Originally Posted by sexZness

omfg

quit being a whore

<---denotes humor woman!

nicknick · 03-22-2012, 05:51 PM

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Originally Posted by shadoquad

wut?

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Originally Posted by nismochiq View Post
Ahh I understand now. Well for the most part then yes but most of the men I have dated have showed more emotion to me so I can't say it's one or the other. And psychologically yes it is logic hence the word psych logic... And yes woman use it as an excuse to get away from people putting their opinions on the "suppressed" female sex. Then again racism is the same way, ask someone of different race and a white guy a similar but projected to race and you will see similarities through racism and sexism. Men like to bitch about not getting *** woman like to bitch about not having money. But you can't judge everyone from most of the population acting the same way because of media and their objectors towards taming society and how they want to act.

And why are you getting upset im not saying you are right or wrong I just think society shouldn't judge before they met the exception.
wut?
__________________

Take note boys......this is one to avoid, she's all over the place.

alcheng · 03-27-2012, 05:49 AM

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Originally Posted by bigaudiofanat

I am curious what everyone thinks about this.

Say you find a girl that is currently in a relationship with someone else. You steal her from that guy.

Does this make that girl someone that will easily move on to another guy? Meaning easily convinced to move to another guy.

dude, before you want to know if that girl will jump to the next guy easily, first you better find out what kind of a girl is she.

If she has a "jumping from guys to guys" record, then she most likely will dump you for another guy, and it will happen quickly.

If that's the outcome, well, you know she's like that, so Suck It Up!!!

If she is not the "jumping around guys" type of girl, and she dumps you for another guy, well dude, that means you are not good enough, so Suck It Up!!!

A very bad scenario, is the girl jump to you from another guy, and after a while, she dumps you and go back to her ex, dude, that's bad...

The worst scenario, is the girl jump to you from another guy, and after a while, she dumps you and become a lesbian!!! Dude... that's a "five-flags bad" ....

canes7 · 03-27-2012, 08:01 AM

Yes but..... it also depends on how bad the current relationship is.

nismochiq · 04-06-2012, 02:18 AM

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Originally Posted by nicknick

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Originally Posted by nismochiq View Post
Ahh I understand now. Well for the most part then yes but most of the men I have dated have showed more emotion to me so I can't say it's one or the other. And psychologically yes it is logic hence the word psych logic... And yes woman use it as an excuse to get away from people putting their opinions on the "suppressed" female sex. Then again racism is the same way, ask someone of different race and a white guy a similar but projected to race and you will see similarities through racism and sexism. Men like to bitch about not getting *** woman like to bitch about not having money. But you can't judge everyone from most of the population acting the same way because of media and their objectors towards taming society and how they want to act.

And why are you getting upset im not saying you are right or wrong I just think society shouldn't judge before they met the exception.
wut?
__________________

Take note boys......this is one to avoid, she's all over the place.

actually is called doing research, reading a book, interested in facts, and how it effects oneself and the people around them. oh yeah I forget, you can't understand what I am saying because you do not do these things

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03-20-2012, 04:46 PM	#46 (permalink)
nismochiq Enthusiast Member Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: San Diego, CA Posts: 296 Drives: Hard Rep Power: 15	Basically what I was implying was that because of how the media influences how we live most of everyone believe the same thing, and alot of people don't know what is true and why is not just don't judge, yes alot of woman do what you are saying but then again stop finding your Gf at the club or your work. Just let it happen and you will find happiness __________________

03-21-2012, 07:19 PM	#48 (permalink)
shadoquad A True Z Fanatic Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: . Posts: 42,608 Drives: . Rep Power: 3886	I don't see how the media enters into it. We're discussing promiscuity. People don't sleep around because Brian Williams or Matt Lauer tell them to. They do it because they want to get off with attractive people. Leaving gender out of it, there's nothing wrong with that until it blurs the lines with committed relationships. Sleeping around is ok, but when there's a ring on the finger and families involved, things get complicated. If someone is willing to throw that away for you, they're probably willing to throw that away with you for someone else, but it is situational of course. It's about personal accountability, not the media's expectations. Last edited by shadoquad; 03-21-2012 at 07:23 PM.

03-21-2012, 07:48 PM	#50 (permalink)
nismochiq Enthusiast Member Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: San Diego, CA Posts: 296 Drives: Hard Rep Power: 15	No I understand exactly why you are saying all I am talking about is how the media effects our decisions on what is ok and what is not ok. Believe it or not if they didn't have any movies tv shows showing people who were promiscuous and cheating it would be less the case. Alot of those techniques come from the media. Like for instance hiding that you are cheating on someone. You would have never learned if it wasn't for your friends that watched this show that saw this technique worked so you tried it. Mainly in your teenage years this happened you just don't realize how much the media has effected our decisions in life it's like religion. You go to church and pay money for dues so you don't go to hell, but in the matter is that you are just promoting its ok to give the church money for something you will never know will happen or not unless you are dead. It's an observation now back into topic, Alot of people cheat, alot of people want to get back at the other for cheating so they cheat, it's a continuous cycle and mostly just find a girl that is at your maturity level and everything should be fine treat her good and if she does something try not to carry that into your next relationship. Same thing goes with a girl. __________________

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03-21-2012, 08:47 PM	#55 (permalink)
ernie Base Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: Lawrenceville, Ga Posts: 54 Drives: 2012 370z blk 6spd Rep Power: 13	Relatioships in todays world are on a one day at a time basis for either sex. Live each day like it's your last. Very few people want to sleep with the same person, put up with all the trials and tribulations of a meaningfull relationship "til death do us part" . Even if you leave your no longer attractive, (to you) partner for the sexy neighbor, she to will lose the magic, or you will, sooner or later. I have seen friends who treated their signifacent other like they where royality and the relationship took a nose dive, the thrill of the chase was gone. I have other friends who treat their partners like they where expendable and only their to fullfill their needs and the door was always open and don't let it hit you in the (butt) on the way out. Those are the people with the longest and for what ever reason, the happiest. Go Figure!

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canes7 Base Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: NC Posts: 129 Drives: '11 BC/Tour/Spt/7at Rep Power: 13	Yes but..... it also depends on how bad the current relationship is.