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Good job duder. Im late to this party too, but if you've read any of my posts in the OG thread, you saw I went through a similar situation recently.

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Old 02-20-2010, 08:55 AM   #34 (permalink)
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Good job duder. Im late to this party too, but if you've read any of my posts in the OG thread, you saw I went through a similar situation recently. I kicked myself for waiting so long before saying how I felt. Everything's in limbo now until she gets back from the sandbox, but...always keep my fingers crossed.

The only piece of advice I can give is this: you did your part. I'd avoid not only being completely passive, but also being completely overbearing. Try to put yourself in her shoes - imagine she just threw herself at you, and you said you didn't have feelings that were mutual, but there was always potential. Why would you have even said that if you weren't at least curious? To prevent hurting her feelings? At that point, it'd seem silly to do that, and hopefully you wouldn't do that to someone - create a false sense of hope. So, your goal now is to just be you. If she doesn't like you for who YOU are...whats the point? How often do you hear women say they hate fakes?

The ball is in her hands now, but that doesn't mean you have to play fair. Spend as much time with her as possible - try to help her realize how special she is to you, more so than anyone else. Try to be the best friend you can possibly be to her, not that you may not be in that position already. Good luck!
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