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semtex 12-14-2009 10:14 AM

You sir, make me glad I don't have kids, and I mean that as a compliment. You see, you've made me realize that I'm just too selfish to be a good father. The magnitude of your sacrifice for your son is almost beyond my comprehension. To say that you deserve kudos would be a massive understatement. My hat is off to you.

370Zsteve 12-14-2009 10:47 AM

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Originally Posted by semtex (Post 322802)
You sir, make me glad I don't have kids, and I mean that as a compliment. You see, you've made me realize that I'm just too selfish to be a good father. The magnitude of your sacrifice for your son is almost beyond my comprehension. To say that you deserve kudos would be a massive understatement. My hat is off to you.

+1 rep from another selfish childless lout! :tup:

Moonlitebiker 12-20-2009 10:08 PM

5 more days and it will all be worth it. I hope.

hoodust 12-20-2009 11:06 PM

Wow. Just wow.

Props for all the heart. Glad my selfish a$$ doesn't have kids! On the bright side you can guilt him into all kinds of chores he can do with his jeep ;)

Regardless of your sacrifice, your love of the Z means you are REQUIRED to be a permanent member here.

BanningZ 12-20-2009 11:15 PM

Wow! You are one hell of a father.

A Prost to you!

Moonlitebiker 12-25-2009 03:50 PM

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Just wanted to say Merry Christmas to those who gave me so much direction when I was prepping to buy my 370. As you know I ended up buying a jeep for my boy for now. Well today was the day. You should have seen his face when he opened up the car keys and ran outside to find it waiting in the driveway.

It still hurts to not have my Z, but what a rewarding feeling to make someone you love feel so good.

SmoothZ 12-25-2009 08:11 PM

Your thread title is misleading. :) It makes me think there was a tragedy in the family.

Hopefully, your son appreciates the sacrifice and selfless act and pays it back someday.

semtex 12-26-2009 05:16 AM

What, sacrificing a Z isn't a tragedy? I mean, it's for a good cause obviously. But still. ;)

MightyBobo 12-26-2009 06:09 AM

Glad to see it all worked out. Hope you get your own Z in the future!

protoZ 12-26-2009 07:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Moonlitebiker (Post 314596)
Today I found out what it really means to be a father. Here I am, finally at a point in life where I can get the car I love. A real car. Not one designed for family vacations, trips to the beach, or enough room for 5 kids and all of their soccer gear. I've had a picture of the 370 on my dresser for almost a year now. I did all my homework and know exactly what I want in the Z and how much I should spend. Then the other night I watched my son, a senior in high school, waiting by the front door for his girlfriend to pick him up for their date. He's a great kid. Good grades. Incredible in sports. Honest. Everything you would want your child to be. Anyway... the Z dream will have to wait. I went to the bank, took out the money from my 370 fund (money from selling the Harley I loved in order to afford the Z), and bought the boy a jeep. Now I just walk around telling myself it will be worth it when I see his eyes on Christmas morning. It's not really helping though. I may have to start drinking.

you are definitely a great parent if my mom hadn't bought my first vehicle back in the day i never would have been driving and probably never been able to get a job to get another. its parents like you that should be inspirations to other crappy parents. you thought of your son before you thought of yourself and thats the difference between being a parent and being a great parent. i applaud your decision. :tiphat: +1

JakeXYRN 12-27-2009 01:48 AM

That's a pretty awesome story. I am sure he will appreciate it very much.
Just don't forget about a little thing called; Karma.
You'll have your day, too!

Saber Rider 12-27-2009 10:18 AM

You are a wonderful father. I personally would have bought my own kid a secondhand car but that just shows the extent of what you feel your son will become one of these days that you bought him something new.

Look on the bright side...now that you bought it for him, if you need a ride he has to say yes...most of the time anyway.

Moonlitebiker 01-10-2010 06:09 AM

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Originally Posted by Saber Rider (Post 344022)
You are a wonderful father. I personally would have bought my own kid a secondhand car but that just shows the extent of what you feel your son will become one of these days that you bought him something new.

Look on the bright side...now that you bought it for him, if you need a ride he has to say yes...most of the time anyway.

Thanks guys. I really do appreciate all the positive support. Saber Rider, this wasn't a brand new jeep. It is used, but in great shape. Every first vehicle gets banged up at some point so I wasn't about to buy brand new.

Odds are I'll start looking for a used 350Z in a few months. It's not a 370, but I'm pretty sure I'd be happy for now.

bigaudiofanat 01-10-2010 07:42 AM

OP props for being a great father.

law2004 01-13-2010 08:39 PM

my parents got me a corolla 09 in 2008 and now i am giving my car to my dad, and iam getting a 370z.
but thats a great thing your doing, am sure your son will buy you something expensive when he grows older! :)


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