Still think about my Ex-GF...

jmayz · 03-13-2015, 04:32 PM

This kind of thing is good motivation to better yourself and reach a point where she realized she screwed up. I had a nasty breakup 15 years ago. We had a kid together and I ended up being the one raising him. We were poor when we got together. Recently I found her on google plus, she's still poor and rents an apartment. I have a great career, better lookin wife, 2400 sq ft. home with a 1000 sq ft garage. I own 5 cars now including my Z!

Might sound childish but I feel a thousand times better knowing I won the race and she's still right where I left her!

Zoren 370 · 03-13-2015, 04:59 PM

Better yet be a premium member and unlock those keys to NSFW section that should keep you busy while working out!!!

Driftomodachi · 03-13-2015, 05:01 PM

Watch the movie Boomerang. You got whipped. You gotta whip dat p_ssy! BANG BANG BANG BANG BANG BANG BANG BANG BANG hahaha

Bad Boy · 03-14-2015, 12:28 AM

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Originally Posted by jmayz

This kind of thing is good motivation to better yourself and reach a point where she realized she screwed up. I had a nasty breakup 15 years ago. We had a kid together and I ended up being the one raising him. We were poor when we got together. Recently I found her on google plus, she's still poor and rents an apartment. I have a great career, better lookin wife, 2400 sq ft. home with a 1000 sq ft garage. I own 5 cars now including my Z!

Might sound childish but I feel a thousand times better knowing I won the race and she's still right where I left her!

Nice.

NeverBoneStck · 03-14-2015, 12:54 AM

Guys like you make me sick. Stop pouring your guts out over some chick on the forums. Soooo many women out there. We all have been there. Just move on. Also, get over she was a virgin thing. Someone had to pop it. It just happened to be you!

Bad Boy · 03-14-2015, 01:27 AM

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Originally Posted by NeverBoneStck

Guys like you make me sick. Stop pouring your guts out over some chick on the forums. Soooo many women out there. We all have been there. Just move on. Also, get over she was a virgin thing. Someone had to pop it. It just happened to be you!

But I was supposed to be her only one

Leroydsouza · 03-14-2015, 01:39 AM

SO GAYYYYYYYY.

Luckily i have a fix for you.

It fixes everything. GO Twin Turbo.

1st · 03-14-2015, 01:43 AM

If you can't have her then nobody can. Don't cut horizontal cut vertically...

Bad Boy · 03-14-2015, 01:48 AM

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Originally Posted by 1st

If you can't have her then nobody can. Don't cut horizontal cut vertically...

I think I need some clarification? lol.

onzedge · 03-14-2015, 06:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Zoren 370

Better yet be a premium member and unlock those keys to NSFW section that should keep you busy while working out!!!

BamBamZ · 03-15-2015, 05:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Bad Boy

I think I need some clarification? lol.

slitting wrist... Don't do it.

Putting everything out on a forum is usually a pretty bad idea... I've been in your situation twice before, I still think of my ex's and were still on good terms when we catch up, it's been 7 years with one of them but in order to see or talk to my ex without heartache, I had to cut all ties and contact for quite a while (2 years i think).

You need to find something to completely take your mind off it, You won't get your closure because no reason will be satisfying enough for you. She might have even told you and it just wasn't enough of a reason. Sometimes people will get bored or simply just want a change. It sucks for you if that's the case but it's a likely possibility... I know it sucks, I know you're bummed that she might be happy and you're miserable.

But as people have said before, There are many more women out there with all the qualities you liked in this one and then some. Stahp looking at it as "she was supposed to be my only one" or "i was supposed to be her only one", you were in a sense just a practice run... Don't fool yourself into believing she'll come back, get yourself to the point where if she actually does come back, that you don't want her back.

You'll drive yourself crazy trying to understand everything that goes on in her head... You see how things are between you two now. Leave it that way and do better than you were before. Focus on school and work, make a name for yourself.

G37Sam · 03-15-2015, 07:40 AM

Oh wow! When I came into this thread I was expecting pics of the boosted 350Z you sold to make room for your stock 370.

You go to school in Orlando and drive a sexy Z! Count your blessings man and don't get too attached to anyone, you're too young for that sh!t.

And while you're at it, please lose the black and white avatar with the pout and head tilt. It's not doing you any good nor making you look like a bad boy. And definitely follow the million dollar advice below:

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Originally Posted by MightyMouse13

1) Do you lift weights?

1a- If the answer to question 1 is yes, lift more, squat deeper, enter a powerlifting meet, and become obsessed with being the strongest person on the planet.

1b- If the answer to question 1 is no, get some hair on your peaches and start lifting. It's impossible to think about your ex when you've got 2 or 3 worth of yourself loaded on your back and you're in the bottom of the hole on a squat with no spotter to save you.

I say this jokingly, but at the same time, finding something requiring physical exertion that you can be passionate about can really help to wash away a lot of problems. Like I said, it's hard to think about emotions when you're in fight or flight mode and your choices are sack up or get crushed.

Nick M · 03-17-2015, 01:25 PM

33yo checking in

I've had every conceivable type of relationship, I was engaged once, but never married.

The best thing I ever did for myself, was read this book:
The Rational Male: Rollo Tomassi: 9781492777861: Amazon.com: Books

Which introduced me to the various concepts that comprise the mindset usually referred to as the "Red Pill" or RP. No, its not pick up game crap. Its pretty involved into the psychology of men and women and attraction.

It will help clear your mind in the short term as you get past the break up.

He also has a blog, and a 2nd book. But start there.

There is no such thing as closure, honestly. When someone says they want closure, its more of way of saying I want another conversation for another chance.

You can't negotiate attraction. Do you really and truly want to convince someone why they should spend time with you, or would you rather meet someone who values you and the same way you value them?

The vast majority of relationships in life are about loss; parents, spouse, whomever. The sooner you learn to manage it and operate with your own personal frame and goals, the strong you will be and the more fulfilling your life will be.

speedfreek · 03-17-2015, 01:29 PM

Someone here is not living up to the forum name they have chosen...

Zbrah · 03-17-2015, 03:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Bad Boy

But I was supposed to be her only one

03-13-2015, 04:32 PM	#31 (permalink)
jmayz Base Member Join Date: Feb 2015 Location: New Mexico Posts: 192 Drives: 370Z 2015 Rep Power: 17	This kind of thing is good motivation to better yourself and reach a point where she realized she screwed up. I had a nasty breakup 15 years ago. We had a kid together and I ended up being the one raising him. We were poor when we got together. Recently I found her on google plus, she's still poor and rents an apartment. I have a great career, better lookin wife, 2400 sq ft. home with a 1000 sq ft garage. I own 5 cars now including my Z! Might sound childish but I feel a thousand times better knowing I won the race and she's still right where I left her! 1st and JC-Nismo like this.

03-13-2015, 04:59 PM	#32 (permalink)
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Driftomodachi Enthusiast Member Join Date: Mar 2013 Location: Cerritos, CA Posts: 482 Drives: 2010 40th Rep Power: 13	Watch the movie Boomerang. You got whipped. You gotta whip dat p_ssy! BANG BANG BANG BANG BANG BANG BANG BANG BANG hahaha __________________ 2010 40th Anniversary ll GT-R start button ll GT-R map lenses ll Plastidipped fangs and rear valence ll OEM foglight & switch ll Motordyne E370 Cat back ll Motordyne ART Pipes ll Takeda aFe Attack CAI ll Sprint Booster ll Z1 34 row Setrab oil cooler ll Z1 Motorsports M-Spec Shift Knob

03-14-2015, 12:54 AM	#35 (permalink)
NeverBoneStck A True Z Fanatic Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Beaverton, Or Posts: 1,110 Drives: 2008 G37 S Rep Power: 18	Guys like you make me sick. Stop pouring your guts out over some chick on the forums. Soooo many women out there. We all have been there. Just move on. Also, get over she was a virgin thing. Someone had to pop it. It just happened to be you! falicfr likes this. __________________ Juiced! That is all you need to know !!

03-14-2015, 01:39 AM	#37 (permalink)
Leroydsouza Enthusiast Member Join Date: Mar 2013 Location: Dubai Posts: 265 Drives: Nissan 370z 2014 Rep Power: 12	SO GAYYYYYYYY. Luckily i have a fix for you. It fixes everything. GO Twin Turbo. FPenvy likes this. __________________ 370z 2014 7AT \|Carbon Signal - GT Edition\|

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1st A True Z Fanatic Join Date: Jul 2012 Location: I 80 Biz U.S. 50 Posts: 1,710 Drives: Platinum Z Rep Power: 1616	If you can't have her then nobody can. Don't cut horizontal cut vertically... falconfixer likes this.

03-17-2015, 01:25 PM	#43 (permalink)
Nick M Enthusiast Member Join Date: Nov 2013 Location: Poughkeepsie, NY Posts: 281 Drives: 2009 370z Rep Power: 12	33yo checking in I've had every conceivable type of relationship, I was engaged once, but never married. The best thing I ever did for myself, was read this book: The Rational Male: Rollo Tomassi: 9781492777861: Amazon.com: Books Which introduced me to the various concepts that comprise the mindset usually referred to as the "Red Pill" or RP. No, its not pick up game crap. Its pretty involved into the psychology of men and women and attraction. It will help clear your mind in the short term as you get past the break up. He also has a blog, and a 2nd book. But start there. There is no such thing as closure, honestly. When someone says they want closure, its more of way of saying I want another conversation for another chance. You can't negotiate attraction. Do you really and truly want to convince someone why they should spend time with you, or would you rather meet someone who values you and the same way you value them? The vast majority of relationships in life are about loss; parents, spouse, whomever. The sooner you learn to manage it and operate with your own personal frame and goals, the strong you will be and the more fulfilling your life will be. jaybulls likes this. __________________ \| 2015 Nismo headlights\| 275/305 \| Z1 spacers \| Eibach Pro-kit \|k&n typhoons \| AAM S-Line catback + FI test pipes \| Stillen splitter \|

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