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Well, there's evidence from real psych studies that on average it's better for a relationship if the woman is younger than the man, and practical experience seems to bear that out in the real world. Most of my girlfriends over time have been ~2-5 years younger than me (talking mostly when I was in my 20's). My most recent girlfriend was roughly a 10 year gap (23 vs 33 at the start). That one was really borderline in the after-analysis.
We had enough in common that it worked very well for the first 6 months or so, but then we moved in together and things went slowly downhill, and looking back on the reasons why, it was mostly about the age difference. It wasn't necessarily raw maturity, just things like differences in where you're at in life: what goals you're after, what kind of news about the world interests you, what level of cynicism you have about certain things, what your priorities are, level of experience with relationship issues, etc. All in all it lasted about 2 years although I'd say after the first 1.5 years the last bit was wasted time, just sticking together out of habit for a bit. Based on coming out of that experience, at 35 now, I think my new bar would be an absolute minimum of 28, but hopefully someone 30+. |
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I've been with my fiancee now for 7 years and we started dating when she was 19, I was 30 at the time. It really depends on the individuals and the type of relationship that you have.
I say so long as it's legal.....all of your boys will be giving you high fives! |
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For what it's worth I seem to date women 3-5 years older than me. One because everyone I hang out with are about 3-5 years older than myself and two I really don't feel like dealing with some drunk 22 year old girl throwing up all over the place. I like girls who have figured out their limits and know what they want out of life |
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there's plenty of fish in the sea, you can't possibly tell me that out of all the poon in the 15-19 yo range running around at the time, this 12 yo was the one who captured your heart/c0ck more than any other? :icon14: |
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You can't bring pedobear pics if both of us were minors :shakes head: And come on guys it was just a saying.. she was really mature, at 16 I was still a kid..
And it was like 6 years ago.. I date legal girls now. |
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wrong one ;) |
Im 31 & my girl is 23. Minus the fact that she always wants to go to the bar everything works pretty good. I always date chicks younger than me, it keeps your pimp hand strong.
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