Damn, arent i the lucky one...

DjSquall

Over the past 6-7 years, this is now the 4th girlfriend in a row thats cheated on me... What a friggin bummer man. Damn this **** is fuckin hard to deal with. Hopefully the Z is going to come to my rescue once again. I know this is totally off topic, but i just feel i gotta share this, a little advice here and there has always helped me cope out before. I feel wrecked...

XwChriswX

Women lie/cheat/steal just as much as they accuse us [men] for. So don't take it personally. They just weren't good enough for you. Where they stray, your Z will never stray. Unless someone else just happens to have your key fob frequency.

But in all seriousness, sorry to hear it (especially as a 4-peat). Just don't internalize it. It's not your fault or a difficiency in you that makes them unfaithful. It's them.

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tjlazer

Time for more mods man! That will always help.

But just know they were not good enough for you so move on and find one that is good. One that will never do that to you.

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azn370z

I've never had a gf cheat on me. Your problem isn't a coincidence. You are dating girls that are not very good and or you're not giving these girls what they need. But yes the z will take your mind off things. Canadian girls are pretty awesome, I dated one for many years.

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DjSquall

Yeah i know that it is 90% the choice/type of the girl i choose. Im into the wild ones, and to be honest, this time isnt a big surprise. She lied to me at the beginning of our relationship, but some things happened that made her stop. And now one of our mutual friends dropped the bomb on me and im still speechless. Now i gotta go home and try to act calm as i help her pack up.. I guess maybe its a sign of sort.. Maybe im time for me to grow up and start looking for other qualities than looks and fun in the bedroom (no offence to the female readers)

tjlazer

Stay away from the wild ones son. lol Trust me on that. I should know... Never again...

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XwChriswX

1. Well can't say much for that type, they're not ready to be mature and monogamous. So you have to take that with a grain of salt...

2. Lying from the beginning is a huge red flag, that is a pretty tale-tale sign it's not the same for her as it is for you. After that, I'd always be on alert for BS if I even kept them around...

3. You found out from a Friend..?? Have you confronted her about this and confirmed it? Maybe the friend is BSing you? Never know...

4. That's a definate point, not the best in bed is the best in person... there's a reason she's good in bed. She must be there a lot... (No offense meant)

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Jjaden

Loyalty is a character trait. You need to get to know where a girl stands on this issue. Generarlly if she cheated on you, she had probably cheated before and it's in her nature so don't take it personally.

I would say the best advice would be to stop going after girls with crappy values and morales. There are plenty of smoking hot chicks who are loyal, you just have to be picky.

P.S. I have no idea the dynamic of your relationship but almost every guy friend of mine who kissed their girlfriends azzez ended up getting cheated on because their women didn't respect them, Act the man, don't be a jerk, but make sure you aren't running around like a hopeless puppy, that is a recipe to get hurt.

Oh also, if you guys argue, make sure you tell her you have done nothing wrong, but she has proven she is an unfaithful whore, so you're better off without her....

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XwChriswX

Especially the wild ones that claim 'they wanna move on'. Cause they haven't got it all out of their system. It's not what they say, it's what they do.

Thats what my now ex-wife did.

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XwChriswX

Once a cheater, always a cheater, unless they get cheated on first and feels how bad it hurts... then only then maybe will they change.

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DjSquall

Yeah, i gotta agree on most of the above. Shes denying it to the bone, but now that ive actually asked around, 1 more person has confirmed. Shes also quietly packing up her stuff without putting up much of a fight about it. As far as our dynamics, ill tell the whole story at the next meet. I need some time to calm down about it. And Its going to be tough to find a "loyal" one in my circle of friends. But ill give it some time. A quick rebound has never been a good idea either.

XwChriswX

Then don't date someone inside your [current] circle. Think outside the box circle in this case??

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Reality

You live in the T.Dot..-Spring is in the Air and the ladies are on the prowl!.. You owe it to yourself to go out and slam as many ladies as possible... think of it as a second job

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DjSquall

Exactly what i shouldve done last time.

dad

Go out side the circle!
There is no loyalty until some one cares about you, when the loyalty is gone everything is dead!

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