Aux to Phone?

///PureSwank

I have a 2009 touring with Navigation I just bought couple days back. I have searched but can't get a straight answer. Simple questions.

I noticed that my navi gives me an option for AUX,Ipod, and compact flash card. but I can't find the simple aux jack that I can plug into from my phone to the cell in order to play music. Where do you plug it in to? There is a yellow white and red inside the console but I doubt that's it correct? A normal aux jack cable will not fit into those inputs.

I don't' wanna have to buy a cd then record music on to it from my laptop only to then record it into the navi system.

Buying a flash card then buying a flash card adapter to install into your pc only to load music seems to bother me because then I'd have to do it all over again once I add or download new music......

Can't I just bluetooth music from my phone? Heard it's not possible with the 09's? Which seem crazy!
Can't find a simple Aux jack which is also Crazy!