i would secont the notion of fourth from the top and third from the bottom.

at least they didn't make them all black, and simply say connect the black to the black and the second black one to the other black one, lol!

Well I did find the correct one. It was simply a matter of pulling the taillight out of the car and tracing the "orange" wire (which turns into a green wire on the taillight side of the harness) back into the car. It was one of the what I would call "light brown" or "tan" wires (of which I have 3 in the bundle of wires). Whether it be orange or brown or tan I got it working and thats all that really matters in the end.