She is right...you are wrong
She is stressed........you can't possibly understand
She will have infinite needs.....you will provide for all of them
How do I know?
I have 2 set of twins (plus 2 more) .
Seriously, every woman and every pregnancy is different but one thing seems to be fairly common. They either have a miserable first or miserable 3rd trimester. I prefer to get the miserable over early, myself. As far as "handling it", dude, you don't even get to vote!