Firstly, this isn't meant as a criticism of any individual.
Having read this entire thread from start to finish, it's indeed sad to see the best and worst emerging: -
The best: the initial rush of passion and enthusiasm and encouragement offered.
The worst: how misunderstandigs can escalate and become something that none of the parties ever intended.
Result: bitterness, disharmony and nothing accomplished.
Sad that it went this way - a real shame to see.
However, on a positive note, the cameraderie of this forum is something else and I am enjoying being a part of it.
Thanks.