look forward to hearing more about how it went... you're doing it the right way, ease into it... use instructors as much as possible, and try different instructors... they may tell you conflicting things, but that's because there are different ways to get around a track... don't worry about overheating for 1-2 events - limp mode is designed to protect your engine... i suspect it would be hard to damage the engine even if you tried... but if you're going to keep doing this, you'll want to get an oil cooler so you can go out and driver harder for longer... stillen or technosq kits should be fine, or check with me in a week - i know of a really robust kit being built
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