so I didn't have to take it up the *** after all (no homo).
I ordered my parts from [
https://www.hvacpartsoutlet.com].
Grand total $341.22 delivered to my house in two days.
I only needed the blower wheel, but since everything was so cheap,
I bought the wheel, plus the motor and matching capacitor, a new computer, a flame sensor, a limit switch, and an ignitor.
I hope to install all parts.. anything that looks too hard, I will just keep the part as spare for when the crap actually breaks!
done!