First off, you guys in this forum ROCK!
On my third attempt at my THIRD dealer, I am finally getting my car fixed. THanks to the guys that helped me out! THe dealer in Richmond gave me the part # to take to my local guy and THEY ARE ORDERING A NEW ECU FOR ME!!! It has to be the one ending in B. THey are also fixing my hatch!
So, if you're in the Raleigh area, DEFINITELY check out Crossroads Nissan. THEY ROCK. Didn't even question the issue I'm having, just said yep, we'll get the part and get it fixed!
I will post a photo of the workorder when it's fixed next week.
THANKS AGAIN GUYS!!