Nice guys finish last is a myth.
If you think you're nice, chances aren't you're not. You shouldn't be so self conscious as to where you judge your actions based on what you think other people will think. Do what you feel. If you're constantly doing nice things that you're aware of, seek help. You shouldn't feel need to keep a score if you're a genuinely nice person.
If you need any kind display of material gains to win the girl, you've obviously got problems. Plus, the girls you're going after simply aren't worth a damn.
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