Actually I hate the auto feature on the headlights, it will kick on in situations where I do not it in the middle of the day, under a bridge or overpass. Since I have no navigation from factory I cannot adjust this, plus I have better judgment on when I do or do not need the headlights.
Rev light is in the RPM gauge, it will be red and I believe the circle is at the top of the RPM gauge. To adjust this use the left gauge and tab through the menus.