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Originally Posted by vtec to vvel
IMO, I don't know if someone can choose to be attracted to someone/something. I feel like it's an involuntary event. For example, I think Dwayne Johnson is a good looking dude, but that doesn't make me homo. Or the new Z, I personally think it's @$$-ugly, but there are others that like it.
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I'm asking because I think I may have misunderstood your points above regarding gays. I do make a distinction here between them and trans folks for a simple reason. If two dudes are gay, they do whatever they want - I don't see them hurting anyone. In fact, those two may have a more stable and normal relationship than normal couples.
However, having a completely unrealistic picture of yourself and of your organism, as well as having the need for others to refer to you in a special way...there I think we're crossing into the weird waters. That was my point. I don't think gays have anything to do with beliefs, as you referred to earlier.