wooha if ebay didnt come through ..... zzzz hunting for this was like hunting for treasure at the bottom of the ocean....
Just in case someone runs into this problem..
from the back of the connector
Black / Green / Yellow / Red.. ( left to right)
https://www.ebay.com/itm/sensor-for-...-/282474454382
I had to search for a part diagram for the trans case....
I came up with
Nissan Part No.:32050-CD80B
SENSOR ASSY-POSITION
Part Description
Sensor Assy-Position
Then i stumbled upon a pic from ebay , and there you have it zzzz fml on a saturday