Back under the dash for more rjm pedal adjustment. Even after bringing the afp down to about 25% it still didn't shift smooth enough. The problem was I had the pedal to low. I think it was hitting the carpet and not getting full disengagement. Raised it up about a 1/2" and everything is much smoother. I can hit 2nd at full tilt again
It only took me a year but I got that thing dialed in

and I didn't cut the chit out of my hands this time