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Originally Posted by BettyZ
It's very helpful to hear ya'lls experiences in this matter. Sometimes **** comes out of left field at ya. Things were going swell and then last year she adopted some neurotic, anxiety-ridden rescue schnauzer that would **** the floor, roll around in it, and smear itself on all the furniture if she left it alone. She became obsessed with it like it was a child. Wouldn't go anywhere without it and then there wasn't room for me in the relationship. Which I could understand if it was a child. But it was a dog. Oh well.
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The reason I married the woman I did was because prior to it even becoming a relationship, instead of playing the usual dating game which is rife with dishonesty and never expressed expectations, we spoke candidly about what we really wanted in a relationship. We started dating in 2016, were married 1 year and 1 day later in 2017, and continue to have very candid and open communication. I will not say there haven't been any issues, but they are very small issues, and we resolve them logically.
I'd dated other women who were "more" in single areas - more compatible sense of humor, more attractive objectively, more intriguing conversationalists in an area of focus - but none who were such well rounded individuals, with intellect, goals, leadership, and the ability to hold articulate and well-reasoned dialogue on a large variety of topics. It's a tremendous advantage when we do disagree. It's not emotional, just a rational discussion and some sort of agreement or compromise.