Very sorry to hear about your loss, Debe sounds like she was a great woman, and would have wanted you to be ok like you promised....... to that end, I would bet she would have wanted you to have this NISMO!!! I agree with the other poster, you should name this car after her/in her honor! Be strong, keep the great memories close, and continue to live your life as she would have wanted, honoring your promise to her.
John