I gave up on trying to weed through multiple suppliers, tip lengths, etc. and just went with the Tanabe Medalion exhaust. So glad I did, it's perfect for me. I wanted this style exhaust tip, a relatively quiet system for daily driving, and also something that can get rowdy under WOT. It's just a tad loud on cold start up but then it quites down to the perfect level after a minute or two. No rasp, no drone, and you really have to listen for the VQ hiss - it's hardly noticeable. But when you open it up past ~3,500 rpm she screams
Additional exhaust mods in my signature too though. So just that system alone would be even quieter.