np. btw, there's no law that you must be social to everyone or have to be in public places. u can live a quiet personal life away from all the crowds and all the hype.
i personally hate social events too. i am not a shy person by any means, but i just dont like dealing with people if i dont have to. tired of all the bs they bring. im very vocal at work, but outside work and family, i dont really talk much beside some chitchat with my neighbors or people walking their dogs or something.
i think best might be to watch cnn or your local news and have general topics to talk about in your head if someone wants to chat. start off with weather, then maybe some news u saw, sports.. just have something ready to chat about so you're prepared. then that preparation might bring you confidence.
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