Nissan 370Z Forum - View Single Post - Still think about my Ex-GF...

Bad Boy · 03-13-2015, 01:34 AM

Hey guys, I come here today to try and vent and understand myself. Maybe some of you more experienced older men or woman can give me some advice, tips, or knowledge...

I had a girlfriend that I met about 3 years ago. We had what seemed like the most perfect relationship. We cherished each other, cared for each other, and loved each other more than anything. We always hung out when we had the time and we always spoke all the time. We mostly never argued, ever.

We had sex about 2 times a week, and she was a virgin when I met her. (we didnt live together, were both fairly young and go to school).

But then towards the end of our relationship, its like all of a sudden out of no where, everything just vanished. Its like in one week she suddenly didnt love me as much as I did her. (to be honest we did have a little bit of an argument prior to this, but it was stupid really).
Ive never cheated on her and she promises she has never cheated on me or left because of some other guy.

We spoke again like 6 months later and then a year later (a Hi hows life type of conversation) and she still doesnt really give me closure as to why our relationship ended. I feel as if neither of us did anything to end it...
What bothers me is just when I feel like I have moved on, I still think about her almost every day, even though I know I shouldnt. Even when im crushing on other girls.

Last time we spoke she said she hasnt met anyone, that she doesnt have time, etc... (idk if shes just saying that, but I believe her).

But idk how to feel. Ive been with two other girls since her, and only had sex with one. It didnt last long, she didnt seem as good a person as my ex. And even then I still think about her.
I feel as if ill never meet anyone again. And that makes me feel very sad and depressed sometimes.

I work full time and go to school full time, but it seems as if ill never find a girl right for me. And I also feel like even if I did, I wouldnt have time, because of work and school...

Im tired of feeling lonely and sad. I just came here to see what you guys think?

03-13-2015, 01:34 AM	#1 (permalink)
Bad Boy Enthusiast Member Join Date: Aug 2014 Location: Orlando Age: 33 Posts: 295 Drives: 370Z 6SPD Touring Rep Power: 11	Still think about my Ex-GF... Hey guys, I come here today to try and vent and understand myself. Maybe some of you more experienced older men or woman can give me some advice, tips, or knowledge... I had a girlfriend that I met about 3 years ago. We had what seemed like the most perfect relationship. We cherished each other, cared for each other, and loved each other more than anything. We always hung out when we had the time and we always spoke all the time. We mostly never argued, ever. We had sex about 2 times a week, and she was a virgin when I met her. (we didnt live together, were both fairly young and go to school). But then towards the end of our relationship, its like all of a sudden out of no where, everything just vanished. Its like in one week she suddenly didnt love me as much as I did her. (to be honest we did have a little bit of an argument prior to this, but it was stupid really). Ive never cheated on her and she promises she has never cheated on me or left because of some other guy. We spoke again like 6 months later and then a year later (a Hi hows life type of conversation) and she still doesnt really give me closure as to why our relationship ended. I feel as if neither of us did anything to end it... What bothers me is just when I feel like I have moved on, I still think about her almost every day, even though I know I shouldnt. Even when im crushing on other girls. Last time we spoke she said she hasnt met anyone, that she doesnt have time, etc... (idk if shes just saying that, but I believe her). But idk how to feel. Ive been with two other girls since her, and only had sex with one. It didnt last long, she didnt seem as good a person as my ex. And even then I still think about her. I feel as if ill never meet anyone again. And that makes me feel very sad and depressed sometimes. I work full time and go to school full time, but it seems as if ill never find a girl right for me. And I also feel like even if I did, I wouldnt have time, because of work and school... Im tired of feeling lonely and sad. I just came here to see what you guys think? Last edited by Bad Boy; 03-13-2015 at 02:14 AM.