LOL yeah after an idiot check it turns out I left an air hose disconnected from the throttle body.
I dropped a screw from the engine cover that sits on top of the intake plenum into the valley of the V6. So I disconnected the throttle bodies from the plenum so I could remove the plenum and retrieve the screw. When I put the intake plenum back on and connected the throttle bodies I left the air hose that connects to the under side of the passenger side throttle body. As soon as I connected that hose the engine started purring like a kitty.
Should I try installing the 34 row oil cooler now...probably should leave that to more capable hands