When I met my wife back in 2000 she was driving a brand new '99 Porsche Boxster (completely paid off with one payment) and I was driving a '98 Nissan Sentra GXE.
She picked me to spend the rest of her life with and not for a lack of options at that point. That's my kind of woman. Just focus on being yourself. It finds you when the time is right... not the other way around.
And although I make my own car payments, it certainly doesn't hurt being married to a suger mamma!