I actually had to keep the original setup
Gray/Red wire go to the pink wire (pin 6)
&
Gray/Blue wire go to the Blue wire (pin 16)
Ultimately it came down to changing my ground location.
Originally I had the ASWC ground and the vehicle ground at the same location. The rep from AXXESS says this causes some issues. So I had one ground on the center screw from behind the cubby and the other ground to the top right hole where the radio would mount on to. (Basically anything that is metal, I found this to be the closest location)
After that I had to manually program the unit. I found the instructions at the following link. I had to start on page 19. Just make sure you read carefully.
http://www.metraonline.com/files/pro...INST10_web.pdf
Now I am very happy to report that my volume up and down, seek up and down, and source buttons work!
(I forgot to mention since I had a Kenwood, make sure you have the 3.5mm cable connected and the brown wire from the ASWC going to the blue/yellow wire)
Also make sure you have all the connections secure! When I tried to program it multiple times and saw it was not working I went back and checked my connections. Sure enough the brown wire mentioned above came loose.