OK, so update. I think everything between the IPDM and DTRL Relay is working. I tested the voltages and there is a solid 12.5V across the both sets of terminals when the parking lights are turned on, and < 1V across the one set when they are turned off.
First set of terminals in DTRL relay::
Second set of terminals in DTRL relay:
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