ElVee

Just in case this is serious, here's a couple more things.

1- It's possible she has had a bad accident in her life, either herself or someone near her, and it might actually be a traumatic experience.

2- She might actually be scared, yo. Some people go on rollercoasters, others do not. Some go on the thing that shoots up into the air suddenly, some do not. The worst is when you *force* someone into those situations. If it goes badly, you'll never be forgiven. Ever. And she will never trust you again. Ever.

3- She might actually be worried about YOU! Maybe you've had an accident, and doesn't want you to keep doing stupid things that may take you away from her.

4- If a girlfriend regularly put you into a situation where you actually felt your life (or way of life) might be threatened in a negative way, would you be ok with that and just, "lighten up," or "get used to it?"


Do you also keep trying to stick it in her B despite the last time you got punched in the throat and she didn't talk to you for 4 days while eying the gun case under the nightstand every night?

Being exciting and thrilling and safely spontaneous is great. But at some point she needs to feel utterly safe and trusting in you when you're together.