So just found out, nothing to do with the Kit. Since the 2012+ have the stock oil cooler, it has to be removed and capped per instructions.
The oil filter stud for 2009-2011 (shorter about 1.25") part number is #: 1521331U00, at first dealer will say that there is only one part number for 2009-2014 but it is not correct.
The part is only like $5-8 and some dealers will have it in stock, pretty sure it is the same as sentra, maxima's etc or pretty much any other nissan.
Here's the one for oem oil cooler:
and what the shorter should look like or similar: