Interesting thread. I'm not single but I'm turning 30 very soon so here are my
Seems like some of you have relatively high standards. Keep in mind that intelligent and pretty single women with a nice personality and a good career are pretty hard to find. Unless you have the same qualities yourself, but then why would you still be single? But I digress...
It's not hard to pick up women, they are literally
everywhere. If there are none that interests you within your work or social circle then you gotta look else where. You just gotta man up and go for it.
You see a cute girl studying/drinking coffee alone, i.e. without her SO, at Starbucks? Go talk to her. Worst comes to worst she will say no. Doesn't matter where the place is, a mall, a restaurant, a park, as long as you allow yourself to make the first move.
Clubs and bars are actually great places to find decent women; not all of them are sluts or "drunk whores", you just have to learn how to differentiate. A lot of them just want to have a fun night with their girl friends. Just go with a couple of buddies to help each other out when talking to them. They are usually in small groups so if you go solo they will most likely reject you.