Interesting, indeed. I talked to a friend who works in my building. He purchased a house 3 years ago, and he's also in the same situation. I've been living alone in my new house for about 1.5 years now, and this is getting old. The elders keep telling me to go to Vietnam to find someone, and there's a small pool of girls I'm not too crazy about. Meh. I'm not that desperate.
The particular girl I'm talking to is a little young (22 soon), but she's very outgoing. She briefly attended my NYE party, and she quickly socialized and played beer pong with my friends. For awhile I thought she knew some of them. She works a lot, so I have to pace myself with texts and whatnot. It's a bit of a challenge to talk to her via text/phone since she either takes awhile to respond or it is brief. Unless we're planning something, I try not to send her more than 2-3 texts a day. In person, she's quite fun to talk to. We're going on a little dinner date tomorrow.
Right now I'm overthinking things because I've been FZ'd so many times, so I'm constantly watching my step. It's like playing Minesweeper. Click on the wrong tile, and I get FZ'd. Haha!