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Originally Posted by SouthArk370Z
No matter what you look like, there will be people who are not attracted to you because of it. No matter what your personality, there will be people who are not attracted to you because of it. No matter what your _____, there will be people who are not attracted to you because of it. There is no one-size-fits-all.
The flip side of that coin is that, no matter who/what you are, there are people that are attracted to that. Pick any characteristic you can think of a do a web search. All sorts of people prefer plus-size partners. All sorts of people prefer small breasts. All sorts of people prefer a dominant partner. And the list go on forever.
Helpful was in quotes because, no matter how helpful you think you are being, many people aren't going to like it. Especially when it is unsolicited.
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I think that's the fundamental problem. People don't look past the words at the intentions of a person before passing judgement and deciding on a reaction.