It's okay, I'm in the same boat. Look on the bright side. There are people who are in a much worse situation, so embrace what you have and your qualities. You can't really change who you really are other than to evolve as you grow older. So what if I'm a nice guy? My quality as a "nice guy" is what makes me approachable and sociable with anyone. I can't change that, but at least I can try to be smarter about it. Just be yourself and have some fun.
Think about your interests and figure out some conversation starters. Don't think too hard or your mind will go blank.
As I've been told, there's someone for everyone. I've come to accept it's not my time yet, so I'll work on myself and explore whenever I can. I just need to start making the moves sooner, but half the time I hesitate or the timing isn't right.
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