Can we get some background on how your last relationship failed? You say she left you for another guy, which didn't work out, but you still talk? I would say it isn't too big a deal, although I know Asian parent pressure can start pushing down on you to get married after 30. (Perhaps Caucasian parents as well) It seems like you are dating occasionally now, so why don't you just continue that until you find someone with whom you have a strong mutual attraction? Are you bored of that? Don't lower your standards, otherwise you will find yourself wasting time and never being happy in your relationship. Your standards are your "guidelines" for a partner.
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