Kinda vague on the description. Maybe post some times, what feels different, etc. 20K seems pretty early, but if you have been tracking/AX very hard for 20K then it's possible. Figure one mile at a track is equal to like ~ 7 miles on the road or something like that. You would expect a suspension under normal DD to only last around 50-60K or so.
Sounds like an excuse to buy an upgrade
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