You are dealing with the fact that you:
1. are a person of the female persuasion
2. drive a brand new car
3. drive a bradn new car that is a Z
4. drive a brand new car that is a Z that looks fast just standing still
5. drive a brand new
RED car that is a Z that looks fast standing still
The compound effect of those five must be the reason that is drawing all the a-holes out of the wood works. Given the amount of doushiness already I experience while only "suffering" from two of those five, I can only imagine what you must be dealing with every day.
On the other hand, you are a female driving a brand new red Z that looks fast just standing still.......I think that's a pretty fair trade for having to deal with all the a-holes.