I'm not discounting any hardship you were put through as a result of the transmission replacement. I am very clearly saying you're unreasonable about several things:
1. You got off very easy. The tranny replacement very easily could have been your cost. It's not hard for them to claim abuse. That would have been far more out of pocket than a half day of work.
2. They provided a loaner and covered the cost. Unfortunately the loaner car wasn't up to your standards.
3. The window issue is a non-starter. It is, very clearly, NOT A BIG DEAL. It takes 30 seconds to fix. That is what I was referencing when I said it cost 30 seconds of your time.
4. A 1/4 tank of gas? Really? Would you rather they not test out the new transmission by driving it?