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Originally Posted by Cmike2780
I see what you mean, but that's not exactly what I meant. She absolutely needs to make an effort as well. What I've learned is that the guy needs to take the initiative, early on. I mean the exact opposite of being a someone's bitch, not that I even think in those terms. The guy has to take control, but you can't look at it as some kind of battle where one side wins. I've tried that in the past and have come to realize its meaningless bs. It's trivial and petty....it's game. It will get you laid, but it's worthless if you want to start a relationship.
Sorry to shake salt on the wound digi. That wasn't my intention. Lock the thread if you'd like.
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one can go on and on about this subject, but yes, if you want a relationship, you need to always give a lil more.. and if it's good, she will return the favor..
but none of that is worthwhile if there is a lack of comm..
so bottom line, unless you just want pussy.. open your mouth an speak lol