First of all, welcome
Now about your list... Don't buy the kinetix stuff, if you are going to buy camber kits and traction links, look at SPL. I think SPC is the only real player in the front camber arm market right now (hopefully changes soon). I have the AEM'a and NST pulleys, I highly recommend them. That would be the first two things as they are inexpensive and have good gains. Buy the Nismo version of the AEM's, they made slight tweaks and they make more power. Order the F.I. exhaust when you get the AEM's and NST pulleys. By the time it's done, you should (dependingon financial situation) be able to finish paying it off and ready to ship. NST pulleys are usually on back order so prepare to wait on those as well. If you can't foot the bill on the exhaust, buy the HFC's first. Berks are a forum fav, but F.I. and GTM's are good choices as well. BUY AN OIL COOLER!!! 25 row minimum... it will keep the fun lasting longer.