Strap wrench on the knob, use a rag for protection, vise grips to hold the shifter under the shifter boot.
NOPE vise grip will slip and cause scratches and miring.
The best method I came across was 2 strap wrenches. 1 on the knob 1 on the shaft. Home Depo is the place to go for the wrenches. 6$ husky strap wrenches and if you open the package correctly you can return them when you’re done.