Hey guys I solved the iPhone 5 to 30 pin connector problem. You need to buy 2 things.
1. Apple 30 pin to Lightning Adapter:
Lightning to 30-pin Adapter - Apple Store (U.S.)
2. Scosche passPORT Charging Adapter:
Amazon.com: Scosche passPORT Charging Adapter for iPod and iPhone (Black): MP3 Players & Accessories
Connect the charging adapter to the 30pin in the center console, attach the Lightning adapter to the Charging Adapter and because this will charge the iPhone it will see it as a connected iPod.
Enjoy your music!
P.S. Still not BlueTooth streaming, I've tried a ton of stuff but at least now the 5 can be plugged in.