Can you take a picture, may be a simple fix.
I take it the sway bar is disconnected and the upper A-Arm is disconnected and your trying to slide the front strut into position but the 3 upper holes are not matching up.
My recommendation is to connect the lower strut bolt, and grab the upper with both hands and put everything you have into spinning it so the bolts match. Then reattach the upper strut and reattach the upper A-Arm bolts.
Hope this helps.. Picture would help!